Undone, Unafraid Couple’s Retreat with Becky Moller

Discover the Power of Presence Throughout the Retreat, you’ll be invited to discover the transformative power of the present moment. We’ll guide you through techniques to quiet the mind, ground yourself, and connect deeply to the here and now, allowing you to experience life with more clarity and peace. By the time you leave, we want you to be well-acquainted with this most important Home inside yourself.

Deeply Connect thru Embodied Experiences Embodiment is the signature stamp on any of our Undone resources. Throughout this weekend, you'll use your whole mind-body-spirit to process, connect, and release in ways you likely never understood before: through guided meditations, yoga, partner massage and adjustments, an embodied desert adventure, and even just rooting your bare feet into the grass.

Break Patterns thru Enlightening Workshops The purpose of our instruction is always to gently clear space for your own Highest Self to come forward, and this is particularly crucial when our goal is to create more intimacy. This is because your capacity for intimacy is capped by your capacity for self-awareness and healthy communication. Throughout the weekend, our self-reflective workshops will expand your abilities in both categories. By understanding where you and your coupleship are stuck, you’ll gain powerful insights to break free from old conditioning and create space for new, empowering choices. Our participants often reflect that attending our workshops has given them new vocabulary and shared understandings that create unprecedented intimacy in their relationship.

Find Ownership and Empathy thru the Enneagram The "Undone" path we offer rests on both accountability and compassion: for ourselves first and our partnership second. Over the course of the weekend, we'll dive deep into the Enneagram, uncovering the programming and wounds beneath the surface patterns that create disconnection or dysfunction, and learning how to return to Presence, where our programming takes a back seat to our Highest Self. This information, when framed through the larger framework of Presence and Practice we offer, regularly creates transformative breakthroughs for the couples we work with. It's amazing how much power you have when you're fully focused on understanding and owning your own stuff.

Find Safety with Nurturing Community Social scientist Elisha Goldstein has named community as the "X-factor" of lasting change. This is definitely true for like-minded couples who want more! One of the highlights of our Couple's Retreats is our gender-specific breakout sessions for men and women. Many participants have shared that these safe spaces give opportunity to process and be witnessed in ways they've never experienced before, a healing element that helped them move forward from the Retreat with new friendships, perspective, accountability, and empathy.

Come Home to Each Other, Transformed This Retreat has space to support your coupleship in whatever way serves: whether you long for greater community or you crave space to just be alone and sink deep into one another. You'll find comfortable accommodations, healthy and delicious meals, and ample opportunities for learning, movement, and connection without pressure to participate. We want you to leave this experience feeling recharged, re-centered, reconnected, and recommitted to bringing your Highest Self into your day-to-day relationship.