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My message is that there is a way through—one that honors your story, your body, and your pace. My work might be what you’ve been looking for if:
You’ve been through a trauma or loss & traditional approaches aren’t helping enough
You’re done bypassing, numbing, or fixing & ready to face the root of your pain & patterns
You want spiritual growth without pressure, shame, or pretending
You’re unraveling old identities & want to rebuild from within
You fear being “too much” or “too broken”—but you long to be fully seen & still held
You need structure & tools designed for real (messy) life, not perfect moments
You want a trustworthy support system that walks beside you—not above you
Working with Becky has helped me establish my own personal practice of daily meditation and exercise. Every time I practice, I’m energized, my mind is clear, I’m focused on what matters and centered on Something Higher than my own agenda. The rest of my day I’m able to live my life more consciously with less worry about getting everything “done,” yet amazingly I get more done! Finding this practice has truly been life-changing for me.
I feel like I have had the most transformative months of my life since working with Becky. I feel like I jumped on a speeding train to healing, processing and letting go. I truly think the biggest awakening for me has been in taking accountability for how I am showing up in the world. Recognizing the places I am feeling stuck or showing up as a victim. The hardest part of this class has been the discomfort I’ve felt many times. Taking accountability can be really painful. But I’ve also learned when I can sit in my pain and ask myself what is really going on I can find growth there. I feel like I have the power to truly start making conscious choices in so many areas in my life now.
I kept putting off joining the Undone Academy program because I was worried about the time commitment of weekly meetings and personal practice. What I’ve discovered since I started is that this program doesn’t subtract time from my life, it actually adds it. Because of the time I invest here, the rest of my day is more intentional, efficient, and effective. When I find this “Presence Flow,” it’s like living in a time warp!
I’ve been in therapy and on anxiety meds since I was about ten years old. Since working with Becky, I’ve started to do things I never thought I’d be able to do in my life. Learning to look inside myself and realize that I have all of the answers, instead of trying to fix anything outside of myself, is life changing. I saw it help me immediately and I see it continue to help me as time goes on. I’m able to sit with my insecure, overwhelmed, shameful, anxious, sad, and angry feelings without turning away. I can hold them with grace and with gratitude. Having a safe space to share that progress has been a really important, unexpected thing to make the difference for me.
You don’t have to be miserable!! You don’t have to wait for anyone else to come and save you!! You’ve already got everything you’re looking for! It’s the best news in the world for those brave enough to try it.
The awareness I’ve gained through Becky’s teachings and this community has changed every aspect of my life. As I’ve allowed my thoughts to have less power, I have found freedom to heal and awaken. It has allowed for more than I thought possible. As I make room for Presence, my next right step becomes more clear. Thoughts now feel like clutter. Like I have to hold each one and ask if it brings me joy or has a purpose. And then do the necessary work to declutter. Thoughts are information, but that’s it. Once you get to that point, it really is freedom.
I’ve been working with Becky for over 5 years and it has changed my life in many ways. I’ve become more intentional in the way I move through life. I’ve learned to be accountable for my own. I have found my agency and I choose how to respond. I communicate in clearer and healthier ways. My relationships are better, my decision making has improved, and I have more confidence. There is something here for everyone. I highly recommend this program!
I’m six weeks in, and I’ve already told five people about this program because I’m so excited about it. I’m a doctor, and I have three administrative assistants who’ve already noticed a visible change in me–I’m managing stress better and I think I’m a better listener too.
I found Becky after leaving rehab. Working with her one on one and engaging in Undone Academy has been more effective for me than all the years of addiction recovery and therapy. Maybe the time I spent in 12-step and rehab got me ready for this, but I feel like here is where all the pieces are coming together for me, and I understand myself more than I ever have. For the first time, I feel like I’m actually beginning to heal.
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Evolving through Trauma, Betrayal, Femininity & Faith
Becky Moller was happily married with four children and a life she adored until a single moment changed everything, and left her standing raw and ragged amidst the ruins of a shattered self. From fear to freedom, Becky uncovers the wild wisdom of true spirituality, unfolds into her purpose, and unassumingly steps into the great unknown: A true love story.
“If you have ever felt betrayed, you know the deep prison of darkness, shame, rage and hurt that it evokes. In this raw and beautifully written memoir, Becky Moller offers a pathway out of this darkness, one that brings healing to our hearts and reclaims the luminosity of our spirit.” —Tara Brach, Author of Radical Acceptance and Radical Compassion
YouTube is one of the easiest ways to find me! I share free teachings on a variety of topics relating to mindfulness, trauma-healing, spirituality, relationships, and how so many of us are moving through some kind of deconstruction in the second half of life.
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I’m a trauma-informed mentor, certified mindfulness and meditation teacher, group exercise and yoga instructor, author, and founder of Undone Academy. My work blends embodied mindfulness, nervous system healing, and over a decade of 12-step recovery wisdom to help people move from painful deconstruction to a grounded, soul-rooted awakening. I’m also the author of the upcoming book Undone, Unafraid: Evolving through betrayal, trauma, femininity and faith, and I share free teachings through my YouTube channel and masterclasses. I live in Spanish Fork, Utah with my husband, five children, and three cats.
My work is for anyone seeking deeper self-understanding, healing from past trauma, a stronger connection to their inner voice, and a supportive community to grow with. It’s especially relevant to people in the “second half of life,” when old paradigms are unraveling and we’re being pushed to find deeper meaning. If you’ve experienced betrayal, addiction, religious trauma, or any other life event that’s shifted your world, you’ll find yourself at home here. This work is for those ready to commit to consistent practices that create lasting, meaningful change.
I offer a range of resources to support you at every stage of your healing journey. My yearlong mentorship and community, Undone Academy, provides weekly live calls, guided practices, and access to one-to-one mentoring with me. You can also explore my free Masterclasses, which cover topics like navigating trauma tailspins, breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, and the keys to healing from different types of betrayal. For ongoing inspiration and teachings, I share regular videos on my YouTube channel. My upcoming book, Undone, Unafraid, offers an intimate peek at the messy but powerful journey that brought me here, with a mix of personal story and practical tools for healing.
Undone Academy is a yearlong program dedicated to helping individuals unlock their inner wisdom, identify and process unresolved traumas, cultivate self-compassion, and deepen their spiritual awakening. Weekly live meetings, comprehensive curriculum, and regular practices of mindfulness and embodiment help people experience lasting personal transformation, guided by experienced mentors and a supportive community.
Undone Academy and my other resources are not a replacement for therapy, but they complement it beautifully—and for some, they can offer an alternate approach. Therapy often focuses on processing and diagnosis, while my work emphasizes curiosity and Self-authority through the integration of mindfulness, somatic awareness, nervous system regulation, and full ownership in daily life. As a mindfulness mentor, I don't give advice; I help you uncover the answers within your own mind-body-spirit. This spiritual dimension of my work is another key differentiator from most therapeutic approaches. The core tenet in my work is that everything you are looking for is already here within you, exactly as you are. All my resources are designed to help you discover that for yourself, through supportive community, consistent accountability, and a clear framework for transformation—elements that point you back to a mindset of self-resilience rather than dependence, something many people find they don’t get in traditional therapy alone.
Our trauma-informed approach integrates practices and perspectives that acknowledge the impact of past experiences. The toolkit offers strategies and insights to regulate your nervous system, navigate sensitivities, build safety within yourself, and process past confusion with greater understanding and gentleness. We focus on finding and healing the root of the wounds that create persistent triggers and negative patterns.
No prior experience is necessary! Our programs are designed to be accessible to beginners, and our mentors will guide you through the foundational practices step-by-step.
I offer flexible learning options to accommodate different schedules, budgets, and learning styles. These include at-home practice, one on one guidance, live online sessions, playback recordings, and in-person opportunities for interaction within the community. My signature program, Undone Academy, is available both online and in-person at my studio in Salem, Utah.
While individual experiences vary, our clients that fully engage consistently report that the program is "life-changing." We encourage you to read our many testimonials to get a sense of what you can expect, but typical results include increased self-awareness, reduced stress and anxiety, more personal peace, improved emotional regulation, a stronger sense of self-compassion, greater clarity, healthier personal habits and behaviors, more fulfilling relationships, and a deeper, more intimate spiritual connection. Our proven results are rooted in consistent practice and the power of our holistic approach to help you live more fully from your own Higher Self.
There is nothing else quite like what we do, because I developed this program to combine four distinct avenues from my own lived experience: trauma-informed somatic movement, 12-step addiction and trauma recovery, psychology fundamentals, and mindfulness/meditation. As a result, this approach uniquely integrates daily mindfulness practice, embodiment, and self-compassion within a trauma-informed framework with a strong emphasis on accountability and community support. While many provide excellent information, this approach uniquely focuses on the consistent framework to actually apply that information, creating soul-level change that is sustainable long-term. This consistent framework is what empowers you to access your own inner wisdom rather than relying solely on external guidance. These tools can help you discover and learn to trust your own Highest Self.
