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BeckyMoller.com
BeckyMoller.com
Evolving through Trauma, Betrayal, Femininity & Faith
Becky Moller was happily married with four children and a life she adored until a single moment changed everything, and left her standing raw and ragged amidst the ruins of a shattered self. From fear to freedom, Becky uncovers the wild wisdom of true spirituality, unfolds into her purpose, and unassumingly steps into the great unknown: A true love story.
“If you have ever felt betrayed, you know the deep prison of darkness, shame, rage and hurt that it evokes. In this raw and beautifully written memoir, Becky Moller offers a pathway out of this darkness, one that brings healing to our hearts and reclaims the luminosity of our spirit.”
– Tara Brach
Ph D, Spiritual Teacher, Psychologist & Author of Radical Acceptance and Radical Compassion
“What makes this book different from others is how it highlights and describes the spiritual impact of trauma, along with practices in communities of faith that sometimes (sadly) only add to the primary trauma. Post-traumatic growth, self-love, open-hearted spiritual experiences, and real resilience are possible and are the often-unexpected outcomes after betrayal. If you’ve been betrayed, you will see yourself in Becky’s story. And you’ll be encouraged.”
– Barbara Steffens, PhD
Founding president of APSATS (Association for Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists), Co-Author of Your Sexually Addicted Spouse: How Partners Can Cope and Heal (Steffens & Means, 2009; 2021)
“It is a rare privilege to be invited so deeply into another’s soul, which Becky does with a beautiful vulnerability. This memoir is a beautiful blend of emotion, authenticity, and encouragement which will be a mirror both welcome and uncomfortable; a portal to growth, serving as an un-earthing of previously unexamined shadow while also filled with beautiful emotionally moving encouragements to continue on and find the magic in it all. Chills filled me every inch for countless portions of my reading.”
– Alaina Jo, LCSW, www.resolutiontherapyutah.com
“This book unfolds with honesty and self-awareness. It’s beautiful and self-reflective to follow the un-doing and re-building of a life, to see it change from fragmented awareness, to full, embodied presence. A journey worth reading.”
—Ashley Mae Hoiland
artist, mother and author of “One Hundred Birds Taught Me to Fly”
“This book is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Through the lens of betrayal trauma, Becky takes us on a raw and honest journey of awakening. She gives language to the healing and transformation I witness in my clients as a Marriage and Family therapist. After reading, I have a deeper sense of clarity and renewed commitment to mind-body-spirit integration in my own life.”
-Ali Springer, MFT, pineviewtherapyclinic.com
In this short video, I share the story behind Undone, Unafraid—the losses, awakenings, and embodied practices that shaped it, and how it can serve as a companion for anyone navigating betrayal, trauma, or spiritual disillusionment. This book is more than my story; it’s an invitation into the journey of being undone and learning to rise again.
This book feels sacred on so many levels. I marvel and bow to the courage and strength of Becky to do the hardest work there is—the true inner work of undoing, unraveling, and healing in a raw, real, go-for-the-throat sort of way. No excuses, no justifications, no coping strategies—just the relentless pursuit of truth and freedom.
She is a pioneer. She paid a great price for her transformation—the willingness to go to the deepest places of pain within her soul. Her willingness to thoughtfully create this book, her courage to share all of the beautiful, messy details, has transformed my life. The discoveries she has made on her journey will go forth and help so many others find their own unraveling—their own healing path to freedom and to God. I love you forever, my dear soul sister and consider you and this work one of my life’s greatest blessings.
And to you dear reader, whether you’re just beginning your inner journey, are in the messy middle or far along the path of transformation, the most important work we do in this life is the work we do inside of ourselves. The biggest indicator of our quality of life is not the status of our bank accounts, the prestige of our position, the circumstances of our lives—it is the awakened state of our own heart—the alignment of our soul: mind, body and spirit. It is the deep and abiding connection to ourselves, to others and to a Higher Power. May the contents of this book give you the inspiration and courage to start your own process of discovery, waking up, healing and awareness. May you feel the desire to do this inner work more than you want anything else; for, it is the greatest gift you will ever give yourself.
Your awakened heart is the greatest gift you can give the world.
This book is a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Through the lens of betrayal trauma, Becky takes us on a raw and honest journey of awakening. She gives language to the healing and transformation I witness in my clients as a Marriage and Family therapist. After reading, I have a deeper sense of clarity and renewed commitment to mind-body-spirit integration in my own life.
If you have ever felt betrayed, you know the deep prison of darkness, shame, rage and hurt that it evokes. In this raw and beautifully written memoir, Rebecca Moller offers a pathway out of this darkness, one that brings healing to our hearts and reclaims the luminosity of our spirit.